It is important that men conform to the standards of women. Women are the ones who choose their sexual partners, and men at best may exercise their right to say no. So women make choices based on their hormonal profile, and birth control pills change the hormonal profile of women, resulting in women choosing more effeminate/feminine men as sexual partners, also as there are no real threats in the modern West and so traditional masculinity is not needed and the state (and/or a career) provide all the material needs of a woman. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intimately-connected/201901/do-contr... The Amblin Memer: Seduction is a Myth http://dstormer6em3i4km.onion/seduction-is-a-myth/ There is a very simple concept surrounding the dynamics of sexual relations that no one appears to actually be talking about, and this is: seduction is a myth. There is nothing that a man can do to trick a woman into having sex with him. If a man pursues a woman, unless he grabs her and rapes her, or drugs her and rapes her, then the decision to have sex with a man is made entirely by the woman. This means that any form of “seduction” is simply seeking the approval of the woman. This is the way it is with most animal species, as we can read about in the Wikipedia page on sexual selection: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_selection ... The process of “seduction” is simply based on the ability of the male to perform in such a way as pleases the female. As such, if we judge masculinity based on the ability of a man to be chosen by females, then we are allowing masculinity itself to be defined by women. ...